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Post by Gerard on Aug 13, 2015 3:08:46 GMT -5
It is something like seventy years since I looked at any woman with interest. My usual attitude to the sex is as it should be: to treat them as a kind of traffic island - hideous objects to be avoided at all costs and certainly not worthy of closer inspection or audition. Most of their behaviour seems quite brainless - for example the way they paint their faces in a futile attempt to look more like adolescent youths. And those silly cold "skirts" or "frocks" with their vulgar principle of public solicitationism. Is not the modern world too much? Both my grandmothers - born in the eighteen-seventies and much more sensible - wore veils when ever they left their respective homes, and rightly so.
Well but! This week I was sitting in a restaurant and, having put down my book for a moment, took note for once of what was going on on the foot-paths outside the window. To my utter astonishment I saw that fewer than one in twenty female foot-passengers was wearing a skirt, and those few who did were very elderly. Skirts are out of fashion and females are now in trousers! An offensive public exposure of distorted bosoms and horridly misshaped bottoms now fills our streets. Is any of our members in a position to shed light upon this transformation and to tell us how long ago it happened and why?
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Post by Deleted on Aug 13, 2015 9:00:48 GMT -5
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Post by ahinton on Aug 13, 2015 11:56:58 GMT -5
It is something like seventy years since I looked at any woman with interest. That admission tells the rest of us here right from the outset just about all that we probably didn't want or need to know about what prompted you to write as you have done in this post in a way that might well make one wonder how many years it is since any woman last took an interest in you (if ever one did). My usual attitude to the sex is as it should be: to treat them as a kind of traffic island - hideous objects to be avoided at all costs and certainly not worthy of closer inspection or audition. Who determines that your attitude is "as it should be"? By what and whose parameters? If your views are as intransigent and trenchant as is suggested by the ways in which you have expressed them, shouldn't you consider taking appropriate steps to ensure that you live the rest of your life in a woman-free environment? I'm sure that you'd do yourself a favour should you choose this option - to say nothing of the favour that such action would do for women who might otherwise have the self-evident misfortune to encounter you! Most of their behaviour seems quite brainless How many women have you personally observed conducting themslves in what you determine to be "brainless" ways? Who decides what female conduct is "brainless" and what not? Are you implying that you consider most or all women to be "brainless"? If so, on what grounds and with what evidence? What on earth is that? You make it sound as though it is a profession! Is not the modern world too much? Of what and for whom? Both my grandmothers - born in the eighteen-seventies and much more sensible - wore veils when ever they left their respective homes, and rightly so. What's "right" about that? Do you favour such veiling of women as is the case today in certain parts of the Middle East where it is on occasion coercivel or even violently enforced? And do you endorse some of the more extreme maltreatment and mistreatment of women that still occurs in certain parts of that area? This week I was sitting in a restaurant and, having put down my book for a moment You ought to have been concentrating on the food and wine being served to you there! I took note for once of what was going on on the foot-paths outside the window. To my utter astonishment I saw that fewer than one in twenty female foot-passengers was wearing a skirt, and those few who did were very elderly. But you've just poured scorn on skirts! Skirts are out of fashion and females are now in trousers! By no means in all cases or at all times; that's absurd! An offensive public exposure of distorted bosoms and horridly misshaped bottoms now fills our streets In your opinion - and, in any case, it occurs to me that whether a woman wears trousers of soe kinf or a skirt of some kind will likely make little or no impact upon the appearance, perceived or otherwise, of her "bosom"... Is any of our members in a position to shed light upon this transformation and to tell us how long ago it happened and why? ""Are" any of our members...", surely? Anyway, whilst I cannot - and accordiongly would not presume to - speak for any others of the mere dozen or so members here, I nevertheless suspect that most if not all would aver that no such "transformation" has actually taken place outside of your constricted imagination and also, for that matter, take exception to your blatantly expressed misogynistic attitude as wholly inappropriate towards other men, let alone to those 52% or so of the world's population who are women. You ought to be thoroughly ashamed of yourself, but I somehow doubt that there's much hope of, or room for, any such thing!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 13, 2015 19:50:20 GMT -5
Thanks for the illustration of the Amazon kc! It is so à propos that one wonders whether the British Museum might even have faked it with photoshop. And on top of Homer too. One wishes does one not that one could be there.
As for Mr. H., our other member, well, we are still waiting but not very hopefully for a new thread from him. In the mean time he has evidently lost his command also both of language and of manner. Fancy his not remembering the word "solicitationism"! "Solicitation" itself means "importunate asking", and the suffix "-ism" - the Greek "-ισμος" - turns it into the espousal of importunate asking as a principle of life. Which is clearly what is going on in the case so kindly reported to us by Gerard.
Consideration of the further examples "old maidism", "pædobaptism", "sansculottism" and "know-nothingism" might perhaps steer Mr. H. back to a more manly, principled and rewarding path and suggest a few threads to start, even.
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Post by ahinton on Aug 14, 2015 0:48:27 GMT -5
Thanks for the illustration of the Amazon kc! It is so à propos that one wonders whether the British Museum might even have faked it with photoshop. And on top of Homer too. One wishes does one not that one could be there. This one wonders nothing of the kind; it's probably more likely that the Amazon faked it with photoshop, although one might wonder why it was not then sold on Amazon... As for Mr. H., our other member Whilst the membership of this forum remains vanishingly small, I am not the only other member, as might be implied from this! well, we are still waiting but not very hopefully for a new thread from him. Thank you kindly, but that's a different subject to the one under discussion here. In the mean time he has evidently lost his command also both of language and of manner. Fancy his not remembering the word "solicitationism"! "Solicitation" itself means "importunate asking", and the suffix "-ism" - the Greek "-ισμος" - turns it into the espousal of importunate asking as a principle of life. Which is clearly what is going on in the case so kindly reported to us by Gerard. Far from it. Where, for example, is the evidence of "solicitationism" in the case that you mention? Who was doing the "importunate asking", what were they asking and of whom and in what way was such "importunate asking" identified beyond challenge as a "principle of life" on the part of those supposedly doing said asking? Consideration of the further examples "old maidism", "pædobaptism", "sansculottism" and "know-nothingism" might perhaps steer Mr. H. back to a more manly, principled and rewarding path and suggest a few threads to start, even. These other examples that you cite are at least as obscure, not least on the grounds that no attempt has yet been made to provide a context for discussion of them but, more importantly, it is unclear how any of them - especially the last-named(!) - could achieve such a result, even if it were necessary or desirable that they do so. Who needs to steer what? - and how and why? What is a "more manly, principled and rewarding path" in the present context? The discussion was about certain conduct of certain women as perceived by member Gerard, the opening gambit of whose post admitted to the passage of three score years and ten since he had last taken any interest in the appearance of a woman, which rather defeats - or at the very least undermines - the remainder of what he wrote. What is the supposed nature of the "manliness" that you seek to commend in a considered response to member Gerard here? - and why should it be so? The subject is surely the subject, regardless. What was allegedly "unprincipled" about any part of my response, as you appear to imply that you have assumed it to be? Whither the "reward" of whatever it is that you appear to expect from me in my response - and what is the nature of such "reward"? I note that you have not even challenged anything specific that I wrote in response to member Gerard! Perhaps that fact, along with the above as yet unanswered questions, might "steer you back" to attempting to do so and, if so, the rest of the membership will at least be able to figure out where you're coming from on this. In the meantime - or "mean time", if you prefer - all that I wrote stands.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 14, 2015 8:49:10 GMT -5
I have no objection to trousers (on men or women), Gerard, although one fashion I personally dislike is/are ripped jeans. I often find that I rip my own trousers, particularly my jeans! It may be because they are a bit tight on me, so what I tend to do is stitch them up again and use them only for heavy work, for example, gardening!
I suppose that the point about buying ripped jeans is that you may be showing off a bit of muscle, or flesh, which some people could find attractive, but I don't like the principle of buying new clothes which have deliberately been damaged in this way. They are unlikely to last as long! I suppose that I would rather buy clothes in good condition and damage them through hard wear myself. Otherwise, it all seems a bit false (and possibly condescending to those who cannot afford to buy such clothes in good condition).
So I do not share Gerard's dislike of women in trousers! I do have a dislike of men and women buying designer ripped jeans! Of course, as a liberal, I would also argue that people are perfectly entitled to wear such things! Do you?
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Post by Deleted on Aug 14, 2015 23:46:09 GMT -5
There are liberals and liberals. But ducks are the thing what.
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Post by ahinton on Aug 15, 2015 2:16:31 GMT -5
There are liberals and liberals. But ducks are the thing what. "Ducks are the thing what[sic]" do what? And what in any case do they have to do with the subject? I've never seen anyone dropping a duck, defensibly or otherwise... It seems clear that whatever offends Gerard is not primarily whether women wear skirts or trousers or indeed what they wear in public but that they are women in the first place, since he appears to regard women as a kind of sub-species who should be "seen and not heard", as it were, as they are apparently "brainless" and conduct themselves accordingly as well as being of universally unattractive appearance; as I mentioned in my initial response, the fact that he claims to have seen no cause to be interested in - still less attracted to - women for more than seven decades says it all, really and his descriptions of them as "hideous objects", "traffic islands" and items of "offensive public exposure" to be avoided at all costs rather sets the seal on his stance which is so straining of credibility that it seems hard to accept it as human at all. One might hope that, for him, a monastic life beckons, since this would at least ensure that he never had to set eyes on a woman again; however, his steadfastly anti-human view of women (some 52% of the human population, as I mentioned previously) is hardly likely to endear him to any religious order within which monastic practices pertain. I wonder if Gerard has stopped for a moment to consider what women in general might think of him and his views of them?...
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Post by Deleted on Aug 17, 2015 18:59:12 GMT -5
. . . what in any case do they have to do with the subject? . . . stammers an obstinately self-willed member. From the Dutch doeck old chap. Two yarns together in the warp and a single yarn in the weft. "The genuine white smock-frock of Russia duck and the whity-brown one of drabbet, are rarely seen now afield" regretted Hardy once in print.
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Post by ahinton on Aug 18, 2015 0:02:08 GMT -5
. . . what in any case do they have to do with the subject? . . . stammers an obstinately self-willed member. From the Dutch doeck old chap. Two yarns together in the warp and a single yarn in the weft. "The genuine white smock-frock of Russia duck and the whity-brown one of drabbet, are rarely seen now afield" regretted Hardy once in print. Thank you for that - although no "stammering" on my part pertains here. That said, your explanation, welcome as it is, does little to address the issues expressed in profoundly regrettable manner by member Gerard and which would surely and rightly be deplored by women anywhere; I have no idea what proportion of women there are on this board but hope tht there are none, otherwise its membership might soon fall yet farther...
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Post by Deleted on Aug 18, 2015 7:28:14 GMT -5
I asked the legendary bb, who is currently wearing (the) trousers, what she thinks of Gerard's aversion to women, women wearing trousers and trousers in general. She wants to know what sort of clothes Gerard thinks she ought to wear?
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Post by Gerard on Aug 21, 2015 1:32:21 GMT -5
Member H must learn to be more tolerant of other people's sincerely held views! Not every one is a pseud such as "Maxwell" Davies you know . . .
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Post by ahinton on Aug 21, 2015 4:54:34 GMT -5
Member H must learn to be more tolerant of other people's sincerely held views! Greater "tolerance" on my part is unnecessary as it is an irrelevance here, in that the mere sincerity with which views might be alleged to be held neither makes those views generally acceptable nor precludes them from being profoundly regrettable; in the present case, whilst I can and indeed do accept that your views on womankind might be sincerely held, to deplore more than half of the members of the human race solely on the grounds of their gender and suggest without any attempt at rational explanation that this is how it should be is hardly a commendable stance, hence the words that you quote from me above... Not every one is a pseud such as "Maxwell" Davies you know . . . Leaving aside your no doubt sincerely held views about the work of Peter Maxwell Davies (other than questioning on what specific grounds you regard him as a "pseud"), what has he to do with the subject under discussion here and why, in any case, have you placed " "s around the name Maxwell? - it is one of his names, after all...
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